Is it worth the risk?

[AbodeOfFelicity]

Hello folks! I’d like to get your opinion on whether you think it’s worth the risk to do bbfs with escorts. I’m 21 years old and even tho i’ve seen over 30 service providers, i’ve only done bbfs one time and for a very brief period of time - she was on top and was grinding for a bit, that’s it. So i never tried different positions with bbfs. And never had a girlfriend either, so no luck there. Do you think i should go for a full bbfs session and take the risk of stds and hiv to experience this or wait until i find a girlfriend, no idea how long or if ever. And for those of you who do this regularly, how many times (estimate) have you seen a bbfs escort and did you get any stds or hiv and if so, what did you get if you dont mind telling? Feel free to pm me as well if you dont wish to comment here. Thanks!

[threems]

I think the whole reason for this board is that the risk is absolutely worth it

[AbodeOfFelicity]

Well so you mean the chances of contracting stds and especially hiv is very low with bbfs? Because i am 21 and doing this over the years just sounds like it’s inevitable i’ll get hiv as compared to the odds of somone who’s 65 getting hiv in only a few years and even if that happens the remaining life was short anyway. I’m just wondering about your advice on whether i should ever seek bbfs from an sp or find a girlfriend even tho i have never ever been able to, and i hate faking myself for that or going to parties etc. I’m a nerdy, mostly unfunny, overweight guy even tho i’m 21 i still think my chances are ver low.

[threems]

I think you need a girlfirend my friend, escorts will not provide anything above the thrill of the moment.
I'm also a nerdy looking overweight guy, now I do think I'm a bit funny and witty and I had 5 serious relationships with fairly atractive women (not 10's but 6's or 7's) before I got married. When you don't have looks, it's about being confident and holding a conversation so they don't notice how ugly you are lol. So either work on you looks or work on your talk or better yet work on both and you'll have pussy galore for free for the rest of our life.

[plentyhere]

What are you doing? 21 and tinder ain't working for you? At your age don't do bbfs with any girl on tinder. Don't want any babies. But hook up with lots of women. Different ages too, experiment a lil. Get a girlfriend for the summer, then screw your brains out. Don't get married too young too. Nowadays should be easier to find sex if your a single guy but I hear from some of my single friends it's hard.

[Rampage80]

Plus the more girls you see, the more confident you are talking to them - pillow talk - so don't just wham, bam and leave - some of the sp's like the banter since it feels less business like and for sure with civilians you should be doing that with.

As for the bbfs risk, there is a risk you will get hit by a car everyday walking across a street - it doesn't mean you shouldn't do it. Just be careful - if something doesn't smell right, look right, then stop and get it checked out or don't go thru with the bbfs.

[Pandorapussy]

I very much think it is worth the risk. The first time having sex bare back was 41. Now I only do it. Before I only used condoms. Begging a dibetic bbfs makes sex easier. Just get test and get know provider and ask questions.

[plentyhere]

The best is when you get to film it.