Toronto BBFS

Has anyone here had a date with an SP who "parties", and "partied" with her (or helped her to "party" by herself) before having fun?

No details about drug use, please. Just wondering whether these "party" girls relax their ad-listed hard limits when they're on something. E.g. are the girls who say they don't do BBFS, but who are "party-friendly", willing to do BBFS when they're "partying"? Do the girls who don't do greek, suddenly do greek? Is it anything-goes? Or what?

I apologize in advance if this isn't a topic apropos to this board; but it's definitely not something I can ask on PERB/TERB, in about the same way that asking about BBFS isn't—so I figured, guys who have experience breaking one taboo might have experience breaking another, eh?

Yes, "party friendly" in an ad sometimes means that, but it's not a guarantee by any means. It could also mean a bad experience if they've been hitting the bottle (or bong) all day.

This is a good question and I was wondering about this too. Not much of a drug user so never seen anyone who advertises "party friendly". As a whole I wonder how recreational drugs has changed how SPs interact with clients regarding this topic.

I party all the time my D of choice is M o l y lol

From the escorts I've talked to they say it doesn't affect their services; the "party" just makes for a better connection with the guy, makes them feel more comfortable, etc. They usually have their limits and "partying" isn't going to change that. For the most part it just makes the time pass faster and for them it's all about extending your time to maximize how much money they can get out of you. If you're having a blast getting blasted, chances are YOU won't be thinking straight when they ask you if you want to extend your session.

I guess if you got them so smashed they lost their senses but then you're going down a dark path and you may not like where you end up.

DownNDirty wrote: ↑Fri 01-Jan-2021 5:21 pm From the escorts I've talked to they say it doesn't affect their services; the "party" just makes for a better connection with the guy, makes them feel more comfortable, etc. They usually have their limits and "partying" isn't going to change that. For the most part it just makes the time pass faster and for them it's all about extending your time to maximize how much money they can get out of you. If you're having a blast getting blasted, chances are YOU won't be thinking straight when they ask you if you want to extend your session.

I guess if you got them so smashed they lost their senses but then you're going down a dark path and you may not like where you end up.

That sounds like they're talking about a different kind of drugs (soft stuff, or maybe psychedelics) than "Party-and-Play" traditionally refers to. For the PnP/chemsex subculture (mostly gay/bisexual men), "partying" is specifically about doing the types of drugs that remove your inhibitions and make you do things you'd never normally do during sex, and also make you able to/want to have sex for hours. Uppers/stimulants, basically.

I always thought that SPs' ads were using the same definition of "party" as the PnP-scene people, since I always assumed they were just writing it that way to acknowledge requests from those PnP-scene people. But I guess not?

greythings20 wrote: ↑Thu 15-Jul-2021 3:22 pm That sounds like they're talking about a different kind of drugs (soft stuff, or maybe psychedelics) than "Party-and-Play" traditionally refers to. For the PnP/chemsex subculture (mostly gay/bisexual men), "partying" is specifically about doing the types of drugs that remove your inhibitions and make you do things you'd never normally do during sex, and also make you able to/want to have sex for hours. Uppers/stimulants, basically.

I always thought that SPs' ads were using the same definition of "party" as the PnP-scene people, since I always assumed they were just writing it that way to acknowledge requests from those PnP-scene people. But I guess not?

I don't think you can pin it down to one type - yes some use them to get through a day (I would avoid those type personally), the ones who like to cut loose a bit (I swear this last two years it seems like coke is turning into the new pot - As scary as they sounds lol), and then there's the ones who seem to use it for other more sinister reasons.

Nope, I'm talking about coke. Cocaine. References to "party girl" escorts are usually referring to cocaine friendly. Could be other drugs too but coke lets guys last for hours so girls can extend the session and maximize the $$$

DownNDirty wrote: ↑Fri 16-Jul-2021 8:14 am Nope, I'm talking about coke. Cocaine. References to "party girl" escorts are usually referring to cocaine friendly. Could be other drugs too but coke lets guys last for hours so girls can extend the session and maximize the $$$

It also makes it much harder to get it up, if even at all. So no service, just doing coke, getting high and maybe some light petting and she still gets paid.

My golden rule is if the ad says the word "party" in any way I'm avoiding. You really don't know what you're getting into unless the SP is known and well reviewed.